How to carefully weave new Friendships
Sincere friendship ... It does not form in a single day or a month, it takes as long as two people get to know each other. Friendship needs to find its beautiful form. The more carefully you choose a romance, the more carefully you should choose a friend. Because a good friend can do a lot of things that are not shared with a romantic partner. Since a good friend can improve our mental development and happiness, it is very important to choose only good friends.
While some people find friends very quickly and those friendships go on very healthily, some people work very hard to find good friends. Many turn into temporary, insincere friendships. Much care must be taken in finding individuals who will move forward in line with one’s character traits.
If you have good friendships ... it will
improve your mood - spending time with happy and good friends will lift your mood and boost your outlook.
Helps you reach your goals - Encouragement from a friend can boost your willpower and increase your chances of success, whether you are trying to achieve fitness, quit smoking or improve your life.
Reducing Stress and Depression- Having an active social life will boost your immune system and help reduce the isolation that causes depression.
In times of crisis - even if you have someone else to share your problems with, friends can help you deal with serious illness, job loss or loss of a loved one, separation, or any other challenges in life.
To support you - your age, retirement, illness and death of loved ones will isolate you. Having a good friend can provide support according to your age and provide a psychological stimulus against depression, disability, hardship and loss.
The growth and spread of social media has recently changed the definition of friendship. With a single click, you can add a friend or discover a new one. But having hundreds of online friends on social media is not the same as having a best friend. Online friends will not be able to hold you in crisis or visit you when you are sick. It is best to find friendships with people who are close to you.
What do you want in a friend?
A friend should be someone you trust. And you need to have a deep understanding of them.
* Make sure
you are someone who knows your life and can stand up to you in the best way * You need to understand who you are and acknowledge yourself * You need to have the
mind to listen carefully to your words
* You need to be someone who feels supportive and acceptable, and who shares a relationship of loyalty.
* The most important quality of a friendship is the way you feel about the relationship. Ask yourself if you are satisfied with it.
* See if I feel safe, or if what I say and do is received in a meaningful way.
* Make sure you are a person you can trust in any situation.
* Do not accept that a person will try to control you, criticize you, or misuse your money in the name of friendship.
How to make new friendships, where to start?
* Find out if the people you see regularly have the friendships you need.
* Another great element of friendship is the common interest. We are drawn to people with similar interests to hobbies, cultural backgrounds, careers, or children of the same age. Think about the activities you enjoy or the reasons you are interested. It is very easy to find friendships with people who share similar interests.
* When looking to meet new people, try to open yourself up to new experiences. Whatever you try will not lead to success, but you can always learn from experience and enjoy a little.
* Volunteering is a great way to meet new people and help others. Volunteering provides an opportunity to regularly train and develop your social skills.
* Attend art galleries, book readings, lectures, music readings or other community events where you can meet people of similar interest.
It is difficult to meet new people in any social situation if you are more interested in your phone than the people around you. Find time to talk to the people in front of you. The first step in making acquaintances friends is to be open about certain things about yourself. Friendships are close. True friends know each other's values, struggles, goals, and interests. So, try to share something a little more personal than usual. You don’t have to reveal your closest secret, just reveal a little more than you talk about the weather or what you see on TV and see how the other person reacts.
* When trying to befriend a casual acquaintance, try to keep calm and talk for a while.
* Find old friends through social media. Instead of chatting on Facebook or Twitter, you can improve your relationship by drinking coffee together.
Be a good friend to yourself - Creating a new friend is just the beginning of the journey. Friendships take longer to form and can deepen, so you need to take care of yourself to ensure those new relationships.
Treat your friend the way you want them to treat you. Be trustworthy, thoughtful, trustworthy and ready to share you and your time. Be agood listener - Be willing to listen and support your friends as much as you want them to.
Do not set too many rules and expectations. Instead, allow your friendship to develop naturally. You two are different people, so your friendship will not develop as you expected.
Be patient - no one is perfect and every friend will make mistakes. No friendship develops smoothly, so try to do housework and find their good. This will often deepen the relationship between you.
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